Friday, November 30, 2012

Christmas Lists

I broke down last night and started writing my Christmas lists. No, these aren't the kind my daughters are writing, bullet pointing every item they hope to receive. These lists aren't about wishing at all, except for a strong desire to cross off items when they are completed.

I have lists for who I need to buy presents for and what I have bought them.

I have lists for what I need to do before the get-together I am hosting on Sunday.

I have lists for both Krogers and Walmart. (How crazy am I to try both in one day!)

I have lists of important dates so I won't hurt any one's feelings and that I will be where I am supposed to be with what I am supposed to have at the right time.

I am trying to be on top of things and organized, but . . . I know all too well that even though I may order my steps, it is our loving Father who directs them. It doesn't matter how with it I am, it is all in His hands. I am not promised tomorrow and neither are you dear Sister.

So, my goal in all my lists is to remember. Yes, I need to remember everything listed, but I also want my lists to remind me that He never forgets, His love is steadfast and He has the right to intervene at any time.

In my weakness, He is made evident. I need lists. He does not.

And whether I complete everything on each list or nothing on any of them, Christmas is still Christmas. God is still God and He sent me Jesus. Thank you Lord!

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

"Yuletide Ledge"

Both my  girlies ready for church on Christmas Sunday 2011
As I mentioned in my last post, I started decorating for Christmas before Thanksgiving this year. This has been a good thing for several reasons:

1. It has put things in a great perspective for me and I am truly already celebrating these "Holy Days."
2. I haven't felt rushed or stressed out trying to get it all done. Maybe I have too much Christmas "stuff" but, doing it in phases has made the whole process much more fun and I have even been able to enjoy the work.
3. This year, putting up the tree, stringing the lights and hanging the stocking have been a "get to" instead of a "have to."

Honestly, this really has been a blessing in disguise. I would like to say that I had been intentional to do this, but when I looked at the calendar and realized how quickly my early December days were filling up, I realized that I didn't have much of a choice. If it was going to get done, it had to happen now.

While I am confessing, I will ask for your prayers too. With everything that has to be done, the gift buying, the cooking baking, the party going, you know how easy it is to quickly become overwhelmed and miss the true reason for our season altogether. There are finances to manage and family "situations" to consider as well as ministry opportunities and obligations. I can see the "Yuletide Ledge" looming with its slippery slope of temptation leading to a downward spiral of becoming overwhelmed and missing the blessings of this season.

Are you there too?

I will commit to pray for you, but I also want to ask "How do you keep Christ your focus during the bustle of the season?" I am always on the look out for practical advice on how to keep Him first.

Decorating early and in phases has already helped me. I think that this practice will definitely become a new tradition, a new tradition with the purpose of helping me keep Christ in my Christmas.

Monday, November 26, 2012

Happy Holidays!

My youngest showing us a piece from her nativity last year. 
I used to be of the camp that looked down my nose at the big box department stores barely sweeping the Halloween costumes out of the way to make room for tinsel, ribbons, lights and bows. I used to refuse to listen to the first refrain of the first Christmas carol until the day after Thanksgiving. Why rush it?

The last couple of years God has really been softening my heart.

The greeting "Happy Holidays!" has been given a bad rap. It has become synonymous with somehow trying to take Christ out of Christmas. And, sadly yes, that is many people's intent with using the phrase. BUT! I want to take it back!

This year I want to start being thankful for the incarnation at Thanksgiving. I want to start celebrating God's goodness in sending Emmanuel last weekend! I want the feelings and tidings of Christmas to flow all through the weeks of Advent into the promises of a new year.

I want to wish you a "Happy Holidays!" with Christ interwoven into each day of this season.

For the first time ever, I began decorating for the season before Thanksgiving. Yes, I packed the ceramic pumpkins and replaced them with my nativity scenes. Instead of three separate holidays, I am choosing to blend them together and celebrate God's blessings in one season.

Didn't the feasts and celebrations in the Bible last weeks? Why can't our celebration of God sending Himself to earth be just as long?

It isn't just about one day. We will end up celebrating Christmas over multiple gatherings and festivities and locations and miles anyway. In my heart, I have already begun.

After all, the word "holiday" comes from its original meaning, "holy day." Add the plural "s" and there we have have Holy Days. 

Ladies, I am wishing you a season of Happy Holy Days!

Happy Holidays!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Attitude of Gratitude

It is the day after Thanksgiving…..Thanksgiving 2012, as they say, is “in the books”.  The day is over.  The kitchen is cleaned up.  The newspapers that were strewn all over the floor are in the garbage…the coupons are saved and ready for shopping.  The refrigerator is full of leftovers and my tummy is full too!  It is the morning after and I am still in my jammies….the same jammies I was in ALL DAY on Thanksgiving!!  Seriously!  I stayed in my jammies all day!!  A dream come true!!

Reflecting on the season of thankfulness….I am reminded that being thankful is NEVER over.  Having an attitude of gratitude must be foundational to our lives.  We all know that.  This is nothing new….we KNOW we are to be thankful always!  After all Thessalonians says, “In everything give thanks.” 

I love hearing/reading/writing the things that people/I are/am thankful for.  Typically those lists that we are thankful for includes the “good stuff” like family, God, friends, homes, freedom, etc.  But what about the hard stuff?  Are we thankful “in” them?  Do they ever appear on our lists?

This journey of life takes us along beautiful green drives and mountain top extravaganzas and ocean beach sunsets that take our breath away.  It is easy to be thankful and awed at the power of our God during those “paths” of life we travel.

But what about the paths in this journey of life where we have to make a U-turn or there is a detour?  What about the rocky roads that cause damage?  What about the long dark tunnels where we wonder if there will ever be any light?  What about the speed bumps that we refuse to slow down and go over without causing damage but we rev up our proverbial engines and forge ahead and the speed bump causes damage instead of slowing us down?

What do we do when the road of life takes us to places that are not beautiful or scenic or pleasant?  What if your Thanksgiving day was not great?  What if it was depressing for you or full of conflict?  Is our attitude of gratitude evident?  We must still give thanks in those places as well. 

Why not pick up that list you are thankful for and add to it the things you are thankful for in the hard times?  Ponder, think, focus on what you can be thankful for when times are tough.  Put it on paper.  Look at it.  Be transformed by it!!  Be thankful!  "Having a foundation of gratitude is a foundation that circumstances can not shake."

I am thankful for you!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Mohawk Man

Have you ever had a conversation similar to this with your husband before? 

Me:  Honey, I think there is something wrong with my car.
Him:  What’s it doing?
Me:  I don’t know… just doesn’t sound right.
Him:  What does it sound like?
Me:  I don’t know….it is making a funny noise.
Him:  What kind of funny noise?
Me:  I don’t know how to describe it.
Him:  I will drive it around the block and see if I can hear it.
Him:  I drove it and didn’t hear anything wrong.

Well, my husband and I had that very conversation a few weeks ago.  Fast forward a few weeks to last week.  I am driving to Illinois to speak to the pastor’s wives at their state convention.  (By the way, I’d LOVE to hear how the TBC minister’s wives lunch went!!).  I get through Indianapolis and head west toward Illinois…..then, of course, I have to stop to go potty (I had lunch at McAlister’s and if you have ever had their tea….you understand why I needed to stop and go potty!  Their tea is amazing and HUGE and I had multiple refills!!)

Anyway…..I exit and all of a sudden my car will not “go”!!  It is running.  I am pushing the gas pedal and it won't go.  Something is wrong!  Cars are piling up behind me…..I am doing this “lurching forward” motion with my body trying to get the car to move….it is coasting….but no thanks to my “lurching”.  I guess I thought it would let the angry drivers behind me know that at least I was trying to get my car to go!!

I coast into a rocky parking lot with lots and lots of damaged cars all over the place.  Tons of them.  There was a white building with three garage type doors….all closed.  I get out of the car.  Walk to the building to see if anyone was “home”.  Finding an unlocked door, I hesitantly open it and call out “Anyone home”?  “Home”?  Really?  Dana, did it look like a home??

Anyway…..inside this building were several cars (all in various stages of disrepair), tools, grease, and very loud music.  Out from behind one of the cars comes the tallest, largest, baldest, tattoo bearingist, nose ring wearingist, man with a Mohawk unlike I have ever seen before.  He graciously walks with me to my car which is in the middle of his lot, opens the hood, pulls out the oil stick, wipes his fingers along it, smells it, (WHO does that with his fingers??  I always see people doing it with a greasy rag but NEVER a finger!  Mohawk man is a MAN!!)  He says it is my transmission and he can fix my car!!

Great!  “Can you fix it in the next 45 minutes so I can get on the road to Illinois?  AND can I use your bathroom?”  “No and Yes”.  To make a really long story not so long…..I leave my car with Mohawk man in the middle of who-knows-where, rent a car, continue to Illinois and spend some beautiful, encouraging time with pastor’s wives in Illinois. 
It occurred to me as I drove away that I just might have left my car at a chop shop and when I return it will be in a million pieces and sold.  AND I was going out be out a lot of money renting a car and getting a transmission fixed....AND I wanted to tell my husband "I told you my car was acting up!!" 
Some of you will understand what I mean when I say, "Those were a bunch of rocks I was about to pick up and put them in my proverbial wagon!!"

But I honestly thought to myself, "I am the most blessed woman!!"  Here my car breaks down AFTER I was off of the busy Indianapolis interstate traffic.  It broke down AFTER I got off the Interstate heading west.  It coasted into Mohawk man’s place of business who could fix it (granted, it would take 6 days and a TON of money!!).  I was able to rent a car and make it to Illinois in time!!  I will NOT put those rocks in my wagon!!

I felt His presence and His hand upon me and I am in awe that He watches over me!!  Psalm 91:11 “For He orders His angels to protect you wherever you go” NLT

I am thankful for Mohawk man.  I am thankful for a God who knows my every need.  I am thankful for you!

Friday, November 16, 2012

God's Gifts

If you are a Facebook person, you probably have seent he blessing post by individuals.  We do have so much to be thankful for.  With Thanksgiving around the corner, I have become reflective on the blessings and gifts God has bestowed on me.  Of course, I am very thankful for an endless supply of chocolate that is given to me from my fellow chocoholics in my church family.  Oh but girlfriends, there are so many more gifts God has given to me.

Salvation:  Where would any of us be with out this gift?  It is free and can never be taken away.

Family:  This is one of my greatest gifts.  My family is very precious to me.  In the past I believe I have often taken them for granted, however, this year has made me fully understand to never take anyone for granted.  My mom will not be with us this holiday season because the Lord called her home.  Her homemade chocolate pies and made from scratch Italian Cream Cake will be missed.  My sons and their families will be scattered to the four corners of the world.  One son will celebrate the holiday with other deployed soldiers.  I do get to spend the holiday with my father who is still recovering from a serious illness.  I have a husband who loves the Lord with all his heart.  The new addition to our family-Gideon- is our bright spot.  This sweet little boy has put a smile on my face and tons of love in my heart.  I live each day to get photos and videos by text or the internet.  In addition, Skype keeps us current on Gideon's daily feats. 

Friends:  Each friend I have is a gift of God.  They have walked into my life and helped me to learn new lessons from the Father.  Some of these people were the last person I would have ever thought would be a friend let alone a best friend.  However, God knew they had a unique quality that would make me a better person.

Our Calling:  You make be shaking your head at this idea, however, it is truly a gift.  Think about it for a moment.  The God of the Universe, Creator of All, King of Kings called us-mere, messed up, sinful humans-out special to tell the world of His salvation and love.  How humbling!

Our Church Family:  My husband and I are blessed with one of the sweetest, loving church families ever.  They have opened their arms and hearts and welcomed us.  We love these people dearly and only pray that God allows us many years together.

So girlfriends, I ask you today what are some of God's gifts to you this year? 

(Please forgive me but I had to share a photo of Gideon per the request of one of our sisters).

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

A Dose of Sugar and an Ounce of Pain

For those who know me, you know how much I love chocolate in any form.  I am a little embarrassed to tell you this but I am such a chocoholic that I have resorted to turning the Hershey’s chocolate syrup bottle up and letting the sweetness pour into my mouth.   Oh but with every piece of chocolate I put in my body, I must push myself to exercise to get rid of those calories.

Our heavenly Father is always pouring the sweetness of His blessings in our lives.  Every day brings new sweetness from a glorious sunrise to a call from someone telling us that they are praying for us.  Yes, God blesses us daily.

However, we sometimes do not see those blessings.  Sometimes God in his wisdom wants us to learn a lesson.  I am one person who often takes God for granted.  I call on Him when I am hurting but in the good times, the sweet times of life; I all too often forget that the Lord is with me then as well.  This is when the Lord allows me to walk through a trial and exercise my faith.

Now if you are like me, exercise is just one of evils of life.  I am not an athletic person.  I hate to run, jog, and lift weights.  It just hurts!  I do love a good brisk walk outdoors but I hate exercising on machines.  Well girlfriends, I hate the fact that my faith must be exercised.  Sometimes faith exercises can be painful and hurt too.

However, with the pain in the exercise come great results.  When I physically exercise daily, I feel better, my health improves, and I can fit into my clothes comfortably.  When my faith is exercised, I grow more confident in the Lord.  I stand firmer on solid ground and I can weather the next storm of life a little more soundly. 

Remember girlfriends, that with every sweet blessing God showers upon us, we need to savor it and thank Him for it.  We do not need to take our Lord for granted because at some point there will be a painful trial that comes along that will help us grow stronger in our faith.

Monday, November 12, 2012

Our Personal Hills

Whew!  I just returned from a walk around my neighborhood.  It is not a leisurely walk.  On my chosen route there is a steep hill.  It is a hill that at times I want to stop, about-face, and run down.  However, I am determined to get my pudgy, chocolate indulged body fit again.  As I huff and puff I put one foot in front of the other and slowly trudge uphill.

After I accomplished my hill obstacle today, I had an epiphany.  As families in the ministry-and as Christians- we must daily face our personal “hills.”  They are steep.  They are rugged.  We stumble and sometimes loose our footing and fall.  At times on our hills, there are other obstacles such as hidden sins which we must climb over.  There are even times when we stop, turn around and run back down the “hill” because it is overwhelming.  However, when we quit, we miss the lessons and blessings God has for us when we reach the top of our hill.

Ladies, let me encourage you.  I-along with you- must face our ministry/life “hill” daily.  We are in a battle that rages in the spiritual realms.  Satan’s greatest desire for us is to throw in the towel and quit.

Just like the hill in my neighborhood makes me cringe each time I attempt to climb it, sometimes life’s hills wear us down and make us grow weary in our ministry and in our Christian walk.  However, we have a great God that is our trainer and motivator.  He is walking right beside us.  He is encouraging us.  When we reach the top of the hill we are climbing today, our Lord reveals His lesson He wanted us to learn and showers us with His blessings that await us.

Saturday, November 10, 2012


Well, ladies, can you believe that Thanksgiving is less than two weeks away!  It’s hard to fathom that another holiday season is upon us, and that we are only weeks away from a brand new year---2013!
During this time of year we tend to meditate on the things in our lives that we are most thankful for---families, homes, jobs, health, basic necessities such as food and clothing, and the list could go on.  Also, thankfulness and gratitude are attitudes of the heart, that really should be cultivated 365 days of the year.
I try to have a heart of thanksgiving every day, but there are times when I fail to acknowledge how the Lord has bestowed on me blessing after blessing!  Truly, the Lord has been good to all of us; we serve a GOOD GOD who is worthy of praise!  
So in this blog I wanted to honor our Lord and Savior with an acronym for the word.......
T   H   A   N   K   F   U   L
T=Our God is Truth
“But You, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness and truth.” Psalm 86:15

H=Our God is Holy
“For I am the Lord your God. Consecrate yourselves therefore, and be holy, for I am holy.” Leviticus 11:44

 A=Our God is Almighty
“Hallelujah! For the Lord our God, the Almighty reigns.”  Revelation 19:6

N=Our God is Never going to leave us!
“I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you.”  Hebrews 13:5

K=Our God is King
“For the Lord Most High is to be feared, a great King over all the earth.” Psalm 47:2

F=Our God is Faithful
God is faithful, through whom you were called into fellowship with His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.”  1 Corinthians 1:9

U=Our God is Unique
“But He is unique and who can turn Him?  And what His soul desires, that He does.” Job 23:13

L=Our God is Love
God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” 1 John 4:16

The Lord is all these things, and soooooooo many more!  Yes, God has given us so many wonderful blessings, too numerous to count, and He is able to work in our lives “far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think(Ephesians 3:20).   So, I just want to thank Him for being the great “I AM”, the everlasting Father, Son, and Holy Spirit!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Election Day!

Well, today is the day when millions across our nation will cast a vote for the next president, as well as cast votes for other individuals running for various political offices.   As we participate in this long standing democratic tradition, I am reminded of two very important truths: God has established government and He is sovereign over the outcome of all elections.
(1)   God has established government.   According to Romans 13:1, “Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities.  For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God.”  Whatever God creates is good; man is the one who taints God’s original design.
(2)   God is sovereign, totally in control of all things. The psalmist says, “The Lord has established His throne in the heavens, and His sovereignty rules over all.”  (Psalm 103:19).   And I love David’s prayer in 1 Chronicles 29:12, ”……You rule over all, and in Your hand is power and might; and it lies in Your hand to make great and to strengthen everyone.”
My sisters,  please go out and exercise your right to vote. And remember whoever is elected in the various political races is allowed to be placed in office by the Lord, for such a time as this.   Pray, vote, and watch how God is always on His throne, and always in control!!

Monday, November 5, 2012

My Lifeline

When you hear the word “lifeline”, what comes to your mind?
To different people it can have a wide variety of meanings.  For some it may mean a special friend to confide in, or a much desired “comfort” food to help temporarily ease away the pains of life, or a little “retail therapy” to fulfill a void, or for those of you who have ever watched “Who Wants To Be a Millionaire”, it brings to mind making a request for assistance to figure out the answer to a difficult question.
This is how Webster’s Dictionary defines lifeline:   a line to which persons may cling for safety; something considered vital for survival.   Wow!  A lifeline involves safety and survival.   Those two attributes most definitely describe the lifeline in my life:  my quiet time with the LORD!  I do indeed feel safe in His presence, and I need His power in my life to survive!
Words really cannot express the extreme value and utmost importance my time with Him has made in my life.  Over the last several years, I have come to cherish and appreciate those moments when I talk with my Savior, read His Word, enjoy His presence, and simply invite Him to be in my day.  When I think about it, all my days belong to Him, so I desire for the Lord to guide my days.
Not wanting to be legalistic, but I seem to have a much better grasp of my days when I spend time with my Lord early in the day, before my time gets filled with schedules, tasks, and a host of other activities.  Some mornings when I awake, my heart is burdened with things that I need to talk with Him about…..things concerning my family, my plans for the day, church issues, having someone on my heart who is emotionally hurting or is physically sick. It’s amazing that after these consecrated times with Him, I feel as if a weight has been lifted from my shoulders.   Also, some days are more “mountain top” experiences than other days, but every time I get blessed! There is absolutely nothing like that special time intentionally spent alone in His presence!
So, my dear sisters, what about you?  Do you have a lifeline?  Do you have a spiritual discipline that has helped you to grow in Christ?  I would love to hear from you.
As for my lifeline……..I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT IT!!
“Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him.”  Psalm 34:8

Friday, November 2, 2012


November is the 'Thankful Month", so I have been reflecting on the things I am thankful for.  I took the "Month Challenge" on facebook to post something I am thankful for each day.
  1. It was a year ago that our daughter and her husband were told that since "none of the fertility tricks" that the specialist had tried worked, that they had a very low chance of ever conceiving.  Today, I am thankful for our unborn grandson, who the specialists say is healthy and rather large.  His due date is Dec. 5th, but they are going to take him sometimes in that makes this even more of a thankful month.  Mom's pre-pregnancy size was extra small and little Cameron has broad shoulders so they are planning a c-section.  After the ultrasound next week we will find out if he gets to stay in the shelter of mom's belly until the week of the 26th or if he will make an early appearance.
  2. I am thankful for Salvation and the love of Christ.
  3. I am thankful for a Christian Home.
  4. I am thankful for my husband, a Godly man; he has been my best friend for over 40 years, the father of my children and my pastor for the past 16 years.
  5. I am thankful for our Christian daughter and her husband who is a spiritual leader of their home.
  6. I am thankful for our Christian son and his Christian wife who are newlyweds.
  7. I am thankful for health.
  8. I am thankful for a church that loves God and loves each other.
  9. I am thankful for a job where I can minister to others and be myself.
  10. I am thankful for great friends.
  11. I am thankful for the opportunity to vent and bore all of my Blog Friends.
I could go on and on with the things I am thankful for...........we all have things to be thankful for.  What are you thankful for?  I would love to hear from you.

WARNING:  When you hear from me next, I will be a brand new "Mimi" for the very first time.  (Our daughter has named us "Mimi" and "Grandaddy" but little Cameron may change all of that.  Smile.)  We were married 6 1/2 year before we had our daughter.........she has been married 5 1/2 I have waited a very long time for this.  I am warning you....I will be the most annoying new "Mimi" around.  I CAN NOT WAIT!!!!! 

Thursday, November 1, 2012


I have two prayer requests and a HELP.......

Please continue to pray for my daughter and our upcoming grandson.  She had a difficult time getting pregnant and has had a difficult pregnancy.  The high-risk doctor has already told her she has to have a c-section.  His due date is December 5th, but they are taking him as soon as it is safe to take him.  We had a scare last Monday....she was having contractions.  PRAY for her and him and their safety and health.

ATTENTION NASHVILLE LADIES and surrounding areas:  Our daughter-in-law lives in Gallatin.  She is looking for a job.  Her major is Nutrition.  They are newlyweds........and if you are from the area, you know the cost of living they really need for her to find a job.  She interviewed at a bank, which she was excited about and they were very encouraging, but the lady from HR called her back yesterday and said that the position was no longer available because the girl that had it was originally trying to transfer and then changed her mind.  They told her that if an opening came available, they would call her and pick up where they left off.  BUT.....she needs a job.  SO....if ANYONE knows of somewhere that is hiring, that does not require a Sunday commitment, PLEASE LET ME KNOW ASAP.  She would love something in her field of student such as WIC but is open to ANY JOB that still allows her to attend church regularly.  Help us pray that God will guide her to the job he wants her to have.  Thanks Bunches!!!