Oh the joys of summer ministry moves and attempting
to navigate everything from a new church to a new school system for your
children! If you are in throws of a
summer season of ministry move, I pray that it is going smoothly; however,
sometimes it is a bit overwhelming.
I just finished chatting with our new worship
leader’s wife who is totally frustrated at the large, local school system in
our city. She was told that class
schedules would not be distributed to the over 2000 students until the first
day of school. What! Also, because of restructuring, relocating
and other issues, no one in the school office or the school administrators
knows what is going on. In other words, there is a lot of uncertainty in the
school district right now. My sweet sister is in tears and simply wants to get
her children registered for school. Oh
and by the way, school starts in a week!
In the past I was employed by a large school
district and worked in the counselor’s office.
It got crazy but we managed to have schedules ready for pick up early in
August and offered tours to new students.
Waiting until the first day of school to provide schedules, lockers, and
welcome new students is nuts! For a new
ministry family or any family for that matter moving children to a new school
district and not knowing what to expect is scary.
As I listened to my sweet sister pour out her heart
and shed her tears, my heart broke. How
many times have we all been there having these same issues. We not only have to deal with a new church
setting but we must look for new a doctor, a home, a school. Like my ministry sister’s son must do now, at
one point my sons had to try out for the football team and earn a spot even
though they had been starters at their previous school.
As we finished our conversation, my advice to my
ministry sister was to contact the one parent in our church whose son will be
at the same middle school as her son.
Possibly this mom can help her reach the right people. My prayer is that both moms will set up a car
pool so that both boys can be together on the first day of school.
My point today is that we ministry sisters need each
other. We need the strength we can gain
from knowing other ladies like us are praying.
I am thankful I have ministry sisters who I can call or text at any time
for advice, to vent, or to just say hello. Almost every day I receive a text
from two of my former TN staff wives (Susan Green and Angie Millard). We may be separated by miles but modern
technology keeps us close. We allow
ourselves to be honest with one another in our frustrations of ministry but at
the same time offer encouragement and laughter.
I want each of you to know that my cell and Facebook
private message is always available. I
may not have the advice you need but I can certainly listen and pray. I hope that you would do the same for me as
well. Because in the grand scheme of
ministry, it is HARD but there is also joy.
One of the joys is that we are girlfriends who stand by each other on
good days and on the difficult days.
Now, I must run.
My ministry sister hear is in deep distress and I know exactly what she
needs-a big hug and a Hershey chocolate bar!
Blessings!
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